That was my point. If they use am arcane ward to try and clear off your arcane ward, and it was a decoy instead, then they have now protected your enchant from whatever they were trying to follow up their AW with.
Sort of. On a mandatory reveal you are always allowed to choose not to pay the cost and discard the spell without effect. So your opponent could choose not to pay the 0 mana and discard the ward in order to play a different spell on the non-mage object.